Design: Winter (Country Seasons)
Designer: The Prairie Schooler
Fabric: 32 hand dyed Vanilla by BeckySC
Fibers: DMC
Date Started: 1-20-2011
Date Finished: 1-24-2011
Still stitching on Halloween Cove. I am on the last page and loving every stitch!!
Thank you all so much for your kind comments and for letting me know it's OK not to feel like blogging or commenting. I don't usually like to post anything like this BUT I had a bad experience this week with a couple of readers... In my 12 years online I have met so many wonderfully giving and talented, friendly and REAL people that I consider friends and just wonderful people to be in contact with- BUT among the good has to come the bad I guess...I think that must be a prerequisite of life. I have found some people are so superficial/fake and just down right thoughtless and I ran into that again this past week. After I posted my previous post it wasn't long (I am talking within an hour of posting) until I received emails asking me "when will you be sending out gifts to your readers again?"...REALLY???? Are you serious??? What part of our tragedy did you not get??? I WILL be sending out many gifts to my readers throughout 2011...but not to that kind of reader...WOW!!!
I am off to a birthday party for the SWEETEST nephew. What's more fun than a birthday party, FAMILY and birthday cake ?? PRICELESS!!!!
Take care and wishes for a lovely week ahead!
love and hugs from SC,
BeckySC
63 Bees Abuzz:
Some people can be so thoughtless! Your stitching is gorgeous, I love this finish!
Holy cow! I cannot believe someone could be so thoughtless. {{{hugs}}} Becky.
Your PS finish is very pretty!
I will never understand how some people behave. I'm sorry you were hurt so badly by thoughtless e-mails and such. It's very obvious you many 'real friends' - focus your energies on them. :-)
Oops - failed to mention that I love your new finish - very sweet.
Oh Becky, the news coverage of your niece broke my heart. It brought tears to my eyes reading it and seeing the devastating damge.
I am sorry some people are so thoughtless. And I must say that was very thoughtless. I hope you know not all of us are like thatand I hope you can overlook those type people.
Your finish is simply amazing. I love everything about it.
Donna
Unfortunately, your giving nature will attract thoughtless people. I'm so sorry you have to deal with such -- it's sad.
I love your PS finish! Your stitching and finishing is wonderful as always! Have fun at your nephew's birthday party!
Like you I always try to see the good in people, but sometimes there are a few bad apples in the bunch and they "stink" Good thing emails and blogs come with delete buttons LOL
I have to say I am envious of your finishing skills, I adore the way you finished this one. I am getting the hang of finishing just need to stitch more so I have more things to finish :0)
I hope you have a lovely time at the birthday party.
Many (((hugs)) and many happy stitches!
Your new finish is gorgeous, and I hope you get much enjoyment from it. Sharing is something you do from your big heart, and for people to expect - no, demand - that you do so is way beyond my imagination. Please try to block those comments out of your mind, and just feel the support your true follower friends send out daily. Hope the birthday party brings you laughter and confirmation that life is truly good.
Oh brother, some people are really missing the emotional chip in their genetic makeup I think! I'm so sorry you had to be subjected to that.
I've had emails from people asking about what I used to stitch this and that or just get information. Sometimes it's almost a demand. When I reply there's never a thank you. I know it's nothing like your circumstance but I count those amongst the thoughtless people out there!
On a happier note, I love your finishing on the PS pillow. Your Halloween piece is coming along nicely too.
It takes all kinds, and I chalk those people up to miserable individuals. I would bet they don't give as generously as you do. But to EXPECT is beyond rude.
I love your PS stitching and finish. You come up with some of the coolest ideas. This is definitely one of them!
Your Halloween stitching is coming along nicely, too. I owe you an email and will try to get to that today. We've had the crud here, both of us, and I haven't picked up a needle in over a week. Hopefully that will change today.
Love and hugs...
What a bee-utiful finish! I've been thinking of something a little like this, but seeing it all done up is so inspiring! I hope you won't mind if I imitate it at some point. :D
What a awful story! When I hear that someone said that to you I start thinking about possible excuses--I thought, "Maybe they are 'ESL'?!" I'm trying to think of ANY excuse for it to be a misunderstanding, like maybe they don't understand the tough experience you are in right now. Or maybe they don't understand that you announced that it will be 2011, and not even one month of it is gone!
I can't say that I would never think of an IRL friend who said they were going to be doing something in a certain year, "How 'bout a little follow-through!?" with an eye-roll. BUT it would have to be something more urgent, AND they would have to have a history of letting people down. And it would have to be December of the year they promised!
If someone suggested to me that you are a person who lets others down I would laugh in their face! I think you are a very generous person, to the point that you want to share the craft with friends outside your hometown circle--and you planned certain specific details in 2010 for how you'd do that in 2011. WAY against your will, so far things are not working according to that "Generosity Plan for 2011". This doesn't change the fact that you are one of the most generous people I've had the joy of meeting, or that you will still give to others.
It's a big wish from me to hope that anyone who would question you on this is having an misunderstanding of language, rather than a total lack of heart.
P.S. I don't sleep well in the winter, either; I'll add you to my prayers for this, though.
I think you are right Becky. Most people will be true and kind, but like Margaret said, your giving nature will attract thoughtless people.
Your latest finish is lovely!
Yet another gorgeous finish Becky! That backing fabric is just perfect... Thanks for sharing! I always love seeing your posts in my reader. I am sorry that you received comments from ignorant people. You are one of the sweetest bloggers! Stay the same...
I love your PS finish, and the way you finished it compliments it wonderfully.
I can't believe people are so uncaring and selfish to badger you about sending them gifts!
Fortunately the selfish people in life are on the minority side, they are just all about themselves and have blinkers on when it comes to empathy. Take care Becky. One step at a time : ))
hugs
Miche'le
I really do not understand some people, are they for real????
Love your PS pillow, I wish I was just half as talented as you are!x
Still praying for you and yours, you all still have a long way to go in the healing process, but what a great way to start with your nephews party!x
Lots of Love,
Suzanne xx
Just focus on healing and not worry about the noise. As my husband reminds me daily, if people are thoughtless it is there problem and not something I can change. You know what you and your family need right now and if some of the people in the blogosphere can't understand that, then it is really OK. Enjoy your hobby because it obviously is something that helps you heal. Enjoy the party and keep smiling. There are a lot of us out here in the blogosphere that think you are an amazing, generous person who constantly inspires us to enjoy stitching to the fullest.
Love this finish!
Some people are just nuts. Pay them no mind!
Oh my gosh, Becky, what a sweet finish!!
The pillow is adorable! I would love to have a bag like that! I thought it was a bag... But as a pillow it is also very attractive!
I LOVE the way you have finished this piece Becky. As always your stitching is perfect. How about a finishing tutorial? LOL
The PS finish is lovely Becky; I'm glad you feel the joy of stitching again as it brings such calm to our lives. As for the people who just want your free stuff, well, I guess you would have to feel sorry for them that they are so thoughtless. However, some days it really is so hard to see the divine in everyone! At least we can always see it in you:)
Jenn
*sigh* I am just shocked that people act that way. It's obvious you are going through a bad time yet all they are interested in are free items. It's terrible.
Sorry to hear about the tough time you're going through. Wonderful finish and great progress on your Halloween wip.
Becky - I am saddened that there are people out there who behave in this way. They are worth absolutely nothing. Sending you hugs. Your stitching is just lovely. Thinking of you xx
That is a great design and finish!!! It shocks me how some people have no compassion for others, only think about themselves!! We all know who our true friends are!!!
Ellen
As always...a cute finishing idea!
I love that PS Winter piece and the way you finished it. I've been drooling over your little pillows for 3 or 4 months now. I did try 1, but hope to do more soon. Your fabric for the Winter piece is perfect.
Hope you find peace...
Bobbi
Just ignore them! Enjoy your family, and your nephew especially! Enjoy your craft and do whatever brings you joy and peace as you work through the difficult time. Your loyal followers will be here when you need us and the rest? What can I say except not to let them bother you. People that self centered are not worth your time. Wishing you a lovely week - Rose
A gorgeous finish , and great progress on your Halloween piece .
It's ashame there are so many a753-holes in this world , thankfully we don't have to put up with them too often .
Take care . XXX
What is becoming of our society, we seem to be enabling irresponsibility.
Know that many of us enjoy the pleasure of just seeing (and in some cases copying) your beautiful stitching and finishing.
Halloween Cove is looking good.
Have a great week.
CUTE CUTE finish! I just love the buttons on the top.
Very nice progress on Halloween Cove. I know I said this before but the fabric you chose is just perfect!
I'm so sorry about the experience you had with some readers of your blog. I will never understand what people are thinking!
Have a good day my friend.
HUGS TO YOU!
I cannot believe someone could be so thoughtless.
I love this beautiful pillow.
Hugs
I too love PS and this one is great. The rudeness, lack of compassion, and sense of entitlement that some people (even in my own family) have nowadays is astonishing. Becky, as others have stated,you have a very generous heart and spirit and for others to try to take advantageous of that is just plain wrong!
you and yours are still in my prayers.
mary in ar
Love the Halloween Cove on that fabric! It's fantastic! Can not wait to see what type of finish you decide for it. Sorry that some are being self centered...hang in there. Denise
I love PS too and your pillow is wonderful !! Have a good day with your family .
Bonne soirée from France.
Love your Pr. Sch. design ~ the colors are wonderful!
I can't believe how TACKY it was of those who asked you that question!! It amazes me that they can be so full of self! Goodness!
Tanya
HI Becky :) all I can say who needs enemies with supposed "friends" like that!!!
love your pillow finish ... in fact I may just have to pinch that finishing idea :) if that's ok ?? and well done on the spooky one it looks lovely on that fabric :)
love mouse xxxx
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What a wonderful finish. I absolutely love it.
I just love watching your WIP grow.
I cannot believe people would be so insensitive at a time like this. Then again.... I have noticed anymore that this world is on the ME ME ME ME ME mind frame... such a shame.
Some people are just amazing, aren't they? And I don't mean in a good way.....
Thinking of you and wondering how you were doing..
Beautiful stitching as always...
Take care
Marion
I guess you are right and there are always one or two insensitive boobs out there
. Down right rude! Sorry you were subjected to them especially with everything else going on in your life.
Okay the nasty is out of the way.
I just LOVE your PS finishing. It seems that each finish is better than the next. Wonderful.
I hope we will see more of your fabulous finishes soon. :) And that you are able start sleeping better.
Unreal!! I'm so very sorry that you had to deal with such thoughtlessness when you have so much on your mind and such a heavy heart. Please remember that these bloggers are a minority,thank God. There are so very many of us who care very much about you despite the fact we've never met.
Your latest finish is amazing!! I love the plaid fabric, it highlights the stitching so well. And I love the idea of a hanging pillow. Too sweet!
I love your Winter Pillow - it did turn out really nice. Your Halloween Cove is looking great too!!
Glad to see you posting when you can, and yes, there are always going to be some nasty people in every group. I am sorry that they have bothered you.
Oh WOW, I just adore your PS finish, what a creative way to finish it up.
I cant believe some people and their rudeness at such a time.
Take care dear friend
Hugs
LISA V
Remember that the delete button works. Do NOT bother a moment with any of those bad people.
The most important thing right now is you and your family's mental health.
Glad to see you are stitching again. Good for the heart, and might put a smile on your face. And look how wonderful the result. Nicely done.
Best wishes to you and your family.
What a wonderful finish Becky!! I love it!!!
Your Halloween piece is comming along nicely!
I'll tell you it takes all kinds! People never cease to amaze me! (shaking my head)
Hugs
I love how you've finished the PS Winter piece, Becky--don't you just love that little man in the moon face?
I am so sorry to hear about the unbelievably thoughtless emails you've received. For the most part, I've found the blogging community to be welcoming and comforting, but there are always a few who think only of themselves...Perhaps your post will help them think about their actions and make some much-needed changes!
First of all what a stunning and unique pillow finish Becky!
Now I am completely astounded at the outright rudeness of that person, I wouldn't send that type of person anything either. Don't let a few rude people deter you from our wonderful community :)
Beautiful finish again, Becky! I am still praying for you and your family...and I won't comment on rudeness...just ignore them and keep up with your generous heart. I will give you peace.
Loved the pillow! Your pictures have been such an inspiration to me and caused me to return to my own stitching. Thank you!
Sorry to hear about the thoughtlessness of others. Praying you enjoy a good night's sleep filled with peace and warmth.
First of all the piece you finished is gorgeous and I am in awe of your finishing skills.
Secondly, it is shocking how thoughtless, selfish and unkind some people can be. So sorry you had to endure that.
Lovely finishes Becky, congratulations
Your TPS is really wonderful! When I visit your blog, i got inspiration for the finishing of my stitching.
Unbelievible, but some people can really be rude and thoughtless!
Ignore them is the best.
Have a wonderful day.
Hugs from Germany, Gabi
I think everyone has said it better than me! I'm shocked that you have been treated this way. ((hugs for Becky))
Beautiful finishes as always! Congratulations!
Becky, you and your family remain in my prayers. As do those who felt the need to be so thoughtless toward you.
Your PS finish is darling--I think it's the cutest finish I've ever seen on your blog.
God bless you.
Adorable finish and I hope you are able to start sleeping better. I just cannot function without my needed sleep.
Take time for yourself and blog when you feel like it. Everyone understands.
Becky I LOVE your PS finish! Love your super WIP too.
I cannot believe how thoughtless some people can be. They are truly not worth it and most definitely do not deserve to be sent gifts from anyone. Big hugs to you.
Some people simply follow blogs and go from blog to blog entering giveaways just to win something and get something!Unbelievable!Don't mind them! AriadnefromGreece!
beautiful finish! So sorry about the thoughtless commenter.
-Jen
Good to see you are stitching again Becky. Your PS finish is beautiful.
Unfortunately there will always be thoughtless and selfish people out there. We will just ignore them!
[[[hugs]]]
Becky, Nice finish on the Winter piece. I have stitched that one also, and love it. I framed mine in a small frame, and love displaying it. I think Prairie Schooler is one of my favorite designers.
Enjoy the birthday cake...
Becky, it's so nice to hear from you but I'm so sad to hear you've been welcomed back with such annoying messages, some people are just plain rude. I love your latest finish, your finishing work is always gorgeous. Hope you have a lovely time at the party and happy stitching.
A beautiful finish. Hope you had a good time at the party.
How can people be so callous. I feel very sorry for them that they couldn't find it in themselves to be more thoughtful.
I don't comment here much, but I'm a faithful follower. I just have to say that I find it absolutely ridiculous that someone would deem that an appropriate/kind/supportive/okay thing to email you at such a difficult time! Where do these people come from...seriously? You and your family are in my prayers :-)
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